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Ed Fensholt Sr.'s avatar

FINALLY slaying the dragon, not fondly. Geez.

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Ed Fensholt Sr.'s avatar

Jeff, this is the most sublime piece of writing I've read in I don't know how long.

Not only do I see myself in your description of consistency issues and focus challenges, but the comparison to the fairy tale, your description of having the courage and persistency to keep slashing at the thorns until you awaken the inner, divine, wholeness within you... that was my experience in life too, and I relate to the profound sense of joy, yes, but mostly gratitude. In my case what I was finally able to awaken (after years of my own slashing daily at the thorns, and fondly slaying the dragon with the help of an amazing boss) was an inner sense of self-worth, a baseline level of self-assurance that has allowed me to completely celebrate others' joys and successes without feeling jealous or threatened, and in the process made life immeasurably more pleasant, enjoyable and gratifying.

But I didn't begin this comment to blather on about MY story. I want to congratulate you for a sublime piece of writing, so beautifully open and personal, that beyond taking us along your path, it brings joy and comfort to us too. I urge you to share this piece more broadly, to the New York Times or New Yorker or some such outlet. It should be read and enjoyed beyond your Substack subscribers.

Blessings to you.

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